Father is like a huge Tree under whose shade we grow : FATHER’S DAY :JUNE 19
When we take a stock of the present days, we find that the problems and responsibilities of a father has increased manifold. Competition and pressure of work has increased. Despite this, they do not forget their children. They love to spend time with their children. However, the ways to spend time with the children have also changed. Now the fathers are also connected with their children via Facebook and Whatsapp. The ways of relationship between father and the children has changed but the emotions and feelings are the same.
Always regard your Guru. A Guru can be your father, mother, sister, brother and friends. In both the worlds, remember that there is none else than more venerable than the Guru.
Well, here we are discussing about the importance of the father as the Guru.
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It is the father who gives birth. When we think of a father, a picture appears of a person who is strict, keeps you away, but yet very close to your heart. There is a saying that the father is like a huge tree under whose shelter, the small plants grow. However, in today’s scenario, the picture of the father has changed. Gone are the days when the children would hide themselves in the rooms and tremble with fear with the entry of the father.
Now the time has changed. Rather in outer world, it is difficult to find a friend like the father. There is a change in technique of managing the father-son relationship. They have affectionate relationship in the childhood and a friendship in teen-age. In old age, the situation is reversed. Old people become like kids and the children treat them as such.
These days, fathers meet openly with their children. Now there is no hitch in this relationship, as they were having earlier.
These days, children always find their fathers beside them, when they loose confidence. In the olden days, the fathers used to act more as the “Discipline In-charge” to their children. Now, children do not feel to call their fathers “Hitler”. The fathers of the present generation have become more a source with whom they can enjoy.
The relations with the daughters have also become casual. Despite of gender variations, daughters feel comfortable with their fathers, as they are with their mothers. Yes! Being possessive is their right, but it is not that the fathers ask you to cover your head and face with cloth and sit at home. These days, children are not afraid to share their secrets and mistakes with their fathers. They have become their partners in play. In wide scenario, we can say that fathers make their children a perfect person and also learn from them.
When we take a stock of the present days, we find that the problems and responsibilities of a father has increased manifold. Competition and pressure of work has increased. Despite this, they do not forget their children. They love to spend time with their children. However, the ways to spend time with the children have also changed. Now the fathers are also connected with their children via Facebook and Whatsapp. The ways of relationship between father and the children has changed but the emotions and feelings are the same.
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This Father’s Day, Gift Him Something Special
Father, Daddy, Papa and many other names! But the relationship is eternally one. This is the relation that knits our life. We have learnt to walk holding the hand of the father. We hear the breath by putting our head on his chest. To appreciate and beautify this relation, whole life is less. Shortage of time and work load does not give us opportunity to do this.
To overcome this, we celebrate the Fathers Day. When you make your father feel very special, at least for one day, his joy is simply unbound. If you have not planned to celebrate this day, come up, plan it. Perhaps these tips may be of use:
Make Your Father a ‘Young Papa’:
Have you ever seen your papa carefully? In polishing your life, he has lost his attraction. He has become old before time. Why not return freshness to him? You can do this in different ways.
T-Shirt:
Give him a colourful T Shirt with catchy slogans. On wearing this gifted T Shirt, he will be filled with energy of his college days.
Facial:
Take him to a good salon and get facial done so that his face glitters and shines.
Mobile:
Have you ever seen his mobile? How old it has become? Buy a multi-functional handset with new apps so that your father also becomes tech-savvy.
Novel:
Your Father must be liking certain authors and their works. So gift him once again a novel of the author of his choice. By reading that, he may get satisfaction for sometime or he may learn to smile by forgetting his anger and become afresh.
Papa Facebook:
Make a facebook account of your Father. Add his old and college friends into that. Does not matter if your father operates it or not, but due to this, there will be reunion of your father with his old friends.
Take care of his health:
Hard office works, and burden of overtime, household responsibilities and so many other tensions are some of the things that can affect your father’s health. These are the factors that makes him suffers from headache and mental tension. Why don’t you take special care of your father on this Father’s Day?
Yoga Sessions:
Take your Father to yoga classes. Let him do yoga and meditation there. You can take your father in these sessions and he will feel very relaxed.
Date with Dietician:
The body needs variety in every sphere of life and thus you have to change your diet and way of living too. A father does not care for himself. He will hardly bother to go to a dietician. It is you have to seek an appointment of your father with the dietician.
Treadmill and cycle:
Your Father may not like to go to a gym. This is a fact. But this does not mean that he should not do exercises. You can gift him a treadmill or a cycle so that he can do the exercise at home and keep himself fit.
Fulfill his hobbies:
Your father must be having so many hobbies in his early life which he may not remember today. May be in his college days he had the hobby of painting and sketching? Why not on this Fathers Day you make his hobbies and interests come live?
Lawn:
Possibly, he might be liking gardening, but due to shortage of space, he could not fulfill his interest. Why not you gift him a small plant or a bonsai? With this, once again he would have passion for gardening.
Workshop:
If you Father has multiple talent of creative writing, painting and music, then in big cities daily one or the other workshop is conducted to encourage these talents. For one day you can take him to one such workshops.
Let us have a party: If you want to please your father only by hosting a party for him, there are so many ideas to make him feel special.
Prepare a dinner:
You prepare a dish of your father’s choice with your own hands. Decorate it with your own hands on the table. Arrange light music. Thus your Father will feel very special.
Host a party with old friends: Your Father must be having old friends with whom he would not be having time to spend. Invite those friends and host a party and then you see your Father enjoying with his old friends. You will also enjoy.
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